When we lose a Christian brother or sister to death, the task of finding a comforting and unique sympathy gift to memorialize their life and also offer solace to the grieving can be a daunting undertaking. The choices can be overwhelming, with numerous stores and websites presenting a multitude of offerings such as flowers, bereavement books, memorial markers, garden stones, candles, and wind chimes. While these items can be a suitable choice for the bereaved, what gift is most appropriate when we are aware of the strong Christian beliefs of the deceased and those left behind?

The greatest gift anyone can give is the gift of themselves. Prayers for the loved ones, as well as tangible offers of help and support, are the most valued resources that a Christian can offer to another in need. However, even with the gifts of prayers and actions, the desire to give something physical to comfort the bereaved remains a gracious gesture.

Although Christians have the promise of eternal life, they still mourn over the death of a loved one. Christians grieve over the loss of companionship and love, yet those that have died have passed on to a new life; an eternal life in Heaven with the Lord. A gift that serves as a tender reminder of the promise of eternal life would make a comforting present.